Good communication is the foundation to any relationship.  Have you ever been concerned that you may say something wrong?  I remember the first few months after I had first gotten saved, I was concerned I was going to say something un-Christian.  I came from a construction worker back round.  We weren’t exactly please and thank you kind of people.  Plus, I was concerned that I might cuss or something.  I wasn’t someone who cussed a lot, but I was around it every day.  What goes in, might just come out.  Really the root problem was that I felt unworthy.  I knew I was saved for the most part, but I was still seeing myself from the past.